How to Know if Your Spouse or Partner is Cheating On You
If you think there is a chance that your spouse might be cheating on you, I want to show you a quick and easy way to find out for sure. Dealing with this type of suspicion can grate on your nerves - you deserve to know the truth about whether or not your partner is being faithful.
More and more people are hiring private investigators to "spy" on their spouse. However, you don't need to go to such an extreme! Whenever we get an email from someone who is considering using a private investigator to see if anything "fishy" is going on, we always recommend using the following method first.
It's fast, easy and costs you next to nothing. There are three steps in total - let's go over each one.
Step #1 - Is Your Spouse Cheating On You?
In the first step, you need to be a touch on the sneaky side. You will need to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for about 15 minutes so you can look at it without worrying about anyone walking in and "catching" you.
There are many different times you can choose to do this - perhaps your spouse just stepped out to the store or mall without their phone of they have just jumped in the shower. Just make sure you have in around 15 minutes of alone time with their cell phone. When you have their phone, you are going to write down every phone number that appears on both their incoming and outgoing call history lists. Most phones will keep track of the last 100 calls - write them all down.
If there are some phone numbers, you recognize you don't have to write them down. Just make sure you are jotting down every other phone number you see. When you are done, put the phone back and move on to the next step.
Step #2 - Getting Ready to Catch Cheating Spouse
Now that you have a list of every phone number that your spouse has called it's time to find out exactly who they have been talking. With just a phone number, you can find out someone's full name, address, family details and background information There are companies that specialize in gathering phone records and building databases that have information on the owner of any phone number (including cell phones and unlisted numbers). Different people including detective agencies and law enforcement will then use their databases to run a search on various phone numbers.
This type of service is also available online to the general public. It's called a "reverse phone search" and will instantly how you the person's name and details right on your computer screen. There is a fee for using this type of service, but it isn't expensive. Make sure you look for a company that offers unlimited searches for a one-time only fee. Your list will most likely have more than one or two phone numbers so you don't want to have to pay for each individual search you use.
Go through your list and run a search for each phone number. As you do this, write down the information, you find out about each one next to the number on your list. Once you are done this step, you can move on to the last step.
Step #3 - How to Catch Your Cheating Spouse
This last step is where you can to "put it all together". Once you have a list showing exactly who your spouse has been talking you, I can guarantee that anything suspicious will jump off the page at you.
Look over your results and the names that you see. Often times people will suspect that their partner is cheating with someone in particular - if you are in this boat do you see this name? When you know who your cheating spouse has been communicating with, it's easy to see if there is reason to think that they might be cheating. This easy "detective's trick" gives you a simple way to discover if your spouse is cheating on you and catch them in the act of being a cheating husband, cheating wife or cheating spouse..
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